If I had a free website and I opened a thread like this to find people like wute slagging off about me, I'd probably go back to whatever else I was doing and let the site stew in it for a few more days. I probably worded it wrong, so yes, granted a lot of people have asked nicely, but if you're not going to ask nicely, don't ask at all.
And sometimes you wake and have to create a whole new identity for yourself because your previous one just stopped working overnight.