I have something to say to you guys (NOT REAL!

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Amazing Asian, Dec 31, 2007.

  1. I have something to say to you guys

    It's been eating away at me for quite a while now and I feel that I'm finally comfortable enough in myself to be able to tell more people and be honest... There's no real way to say this without being direct so I may as well just say it: I'm gay.

    I'm going to use this thread as a bit of a vent, so bear with me.

    I guess I may as well answer any questions you guys have here (although with such a seemingly high concentration of active gay members on this site i guess your questions will have already been answered).

    Firstly... how long have I known? Years. Well it's difficult really to pinpoint an exact date or whatever, but I suppose it really came into my conciousness around the age of 14... I was noticing guys a lot more than i thought I really should be and I wasn't massively interested in girls (but I make out like I am as a cover up - I'm guessing this is pretty common but the other guys can answer this one for me).

    Question two: "have you banged any guys yet". No... I've not been with a guy in a sexual way or anything like that yet (and no, koko, i don't "just need some good pussy" to fix it) but it's obviously something that i think about a whole lot, and come to think of it, i don't think i've ever really thought about girls in that way.

    Question three: "Do your parents know". In a word. No. I've decided to come out here first for a few reasons, really. first reason being that i don't really risk being rejected in a community with such prominent gay members (smellens, james, moosquad, v8stangman etc), and i know there's always going to be the support of you guys if things are going pear-shaped in RL (as sad as that sounds!). Also, there's the issue of the parents being all traditional and shit when it comes to issues like this. quite frankly i'm scared of telling them since i really have NO idea how they will react. I'm going to leave that out for a while. Also if you're reading this honk & pingpong... sorry i didn't tell you guys first... i guess i just found it too difficult to do it face to face. I know it'll be alright once I do it since in this day and age all sorts of people can come out in all walks of life and be accepted by the majority

    some of you probably "guessed" or whatever you think you did by noticing that i like to spend time on grooming and making myself look fabulous for nights out and whatnot but I guess that's just the way i'm wired. I'm not all flamboyant in the way i talk or walk or any of that crap - i just look a bit queer, that's all <A BORDER="0" HREF="http://www.supercars.net/PitLane?displayFAQ=y"><IMG BORDER="0" SRC="pitlane/emoticons/tongue.gif"></A>. Most people I know though pass it off as just being all metro which is fine, but yeah I am actually gay.

    Anyway... it's good to get this off my chest.. although i won't really know what it feels like until i push that button... here goes...
     
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    cud i be ur first
     
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    "such prominent gay members (smellens, james, moosquad, v8stangman etc)"
    LOL!

    Anyway, +1 for having the stones to come out with it. Kind of crazy that we're the first people you told about it. We is specials. Good luck with everything.
     
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    The gay is catching all of the cool people <A BORDER="0" HREF="http://www.supercars.net/PitLane?displayFAQ=y"><IMG BORDER="0" SRC="pitlane/emoticons/sad.gif"></A>
     
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    don't worry, you don't risk catching it.

    OMG BURN
     
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    But seriously I think we had loads of clues.
     
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    lol yeah i chuckled at that when i typed it out <A BORDER="0" HREF="http://www.supercars.net/PitLane?displayFAQ=y"><IMG BORDER="0" SRC="pitlane/emoticons/smile.gif"></A>

    thanks for the positive comments
     
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    I always find it amusing that people feel comfortable sharing such personal stuff on this site. It's not like we're an overly hospitable bunch of people or anything.

    Anyway, good luck Bui, I'm sure things will work out for you.
     
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    i didn't say i was trying to be inconspicuous about it all <A BORDER="0" HREF="http://www.supercars.net/PitLane?displayFAQ=y"><IMG BORDER="0" SRC="pitlane/emoticons/tongue.gif"></A>
     
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    Wait, so this is serious? Upon first reading it, I thought you had just copied/pasted Veyronman's coming out post from years back.
     
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    If i could find it that's what I would have done, since it was pretty difficult writing all of that!

    and yes, it's serious
     
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    I couldn't tell if this was a .txt or not till I heard you get specific. Either way dude it makes no difference to me, that's cool you're getting it out though since I bet it's stressful to hold in.

    QUESTION(S): Do you ilke girls at all? If you met a dude you liked now would you date/other stuff with him, or are you not interested in that yet? Wanna play xbox bro?


    but f'real, tigerhug.jpg dude
     
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    I think we're pretty hospitable with the members we know well that have been around for a long time or have shown that they're not huge idiots. I can understand people sharing stuff like this one here because there is some sense of closeness with the regulars, but it's still just the internet and doesn't really have much of a real-life impact.
     
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    *hug* well done bui. Whether it's on SC or not, it's a fkin big step! I wish you all the best, and you know I'm always on MSN if you wanna talk
     
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    u spelled cyber wrong
     
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    I'm happy that you've come out, even if it is to sc.net. Good luck man! <A BORDER="0" HREF="http://www.supercars.net/PitLane?displayFAQ=y"><IMG BORDER="0" SRC="pitlane/emoticons/grin.gif"></A>
     
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    You do have to #$%# guys in order to be gay.
     
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    Oh, alright then. Props for having the balls to come out on the internetz, at least. I wish you all the best.
     
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    I think it's the lack of real-life impact that makes it easier, and I think it'll make it easier for me to be truthful actually in real life when I finally come to that point.

    and WCW: I don't think I ever genuinely had an interest in OMG GURLZ even though I try it on in the clubs and stuff... I don't quite think I'm ready for a boyfriend yet but I'm just going to take this one step at a time.

    guys I've got get back to work, but I'd just like to say thanks for the support. It really helps.
     
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    That's cool man & yeah I understand about taking your time with something like this.
     
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    SHHH nobody's meant to know! <A BORDER="0" HREF="http://www.supercars.net/PitLane?displayFAQ=y"><IMG BORDER="0" SRC="pitlane/emoticons/amazed.gif"></A>
     
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    No, you don't. Don't be an idiot.
     
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    There is nothing like a good stiff cock in the ass in the morning... oh shit.
     
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    Seriously, it doesn't change anything for us <A BORDER="0" HREF="http://www.supercars.net/PitLane?displayFAQ=y"><IMG BORDER="0" SRC="pitlane/emoticons/grin.gif"></A> Keep posting and vent on here when you need to.

    and being homophobic is so 1990, everything will go well.
    Have a happy new year and get plastered.
     

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