your girlfriend? Long story short, i hooked up with a girl the night before i left for 3 weeks to go surf in Indonesia, I come back and we hook up again, 3 times in 4 nights that i've been back. I know you're supposed to talk to her about it, but I'm scared, I move into a new house in about 36hours- not to confuse you people on the other parts of the globe, and my 4 other room mates and I made a deal that no guy can be tied down (girlfriend) or they will suffer the the consequences, which we decided was you get tied to a flag pole and hosed down naked- everyday. So, I do not want to be hosed down against my will, especially naked, so when could I "think" that shes my gf?