So... low self-esteem is a good quality to have? I'm not even trolling anymore. You guys seriously like that?
I find it very attractive. I'd never attempt to have an actual relationship with that kind of woman, though.
Well, ok see... I don't know that people are as black and white as you're seeing things. People aren't either just over-confident or riddled with low self-esteem. There are more than two kinds of personality traits you know. What I'm talking about is over-confidence.
I spent 2-3 times a week with her (8-12 per a week) and she wanted me to spend more time with her (4-5 days a week). I work full time, I drive to work and back from work (total 100+ miles a day... 2+ hrs of driving). I cannot give her that much time that she is expecting from me. She doesn't drive and she is a student and she works as a babysitter. So this means I have to always drive to her(which wasn't too bad because she lives less than 5 miles from my house)... At least once a week we would go somewhere (just to eat, or maybe just go hiking, then eat somewhere) I saw her twice as much as I saw my family and friends in a week and yet that wasn't enough. (I honestly am not capable of giving that much time to her). She is demanding too much from me and Im not gonna have it. I can go on and on, but the bottom line is that: To me, She was too immature (in many things) and expecting a fairytale relationship with me. (She is 24), I was 28 (Now Im 29).
She was/is a virgin, Im a nice guy, I didnt wanna break her in since she has waited that long. I did everything else though.